In the past year, we at Heartland Cat Rescue have adopted out hundreds of cats and kittens to loving new homes. Some of these have gone to a place where there already are cats, kittens and other animals. However, some have gone to new owners. There’s a certain amount of anxiety with being a new cat owner. We recently found this article from Lizzie Youens in All About Cats.
If you are a new cat owner – we hope this helps you.
Taking on a cat is a big responsibility. New cat owner anxiety, where feelings of overwhelm and stress emerge after bringing a new pet home, can be difficult to experience. However, these feelings are common and do subside with time.
Struggling with the reality of owning a new cat is common though rarely discussed. To reduce anxiety levels, focus on providing for the cat’s basic needs. Also, settling into a routine, forming a bond. Most of all, be patient.3To help a cat feel more relaxed in their new home, provide plenty of hiding places. Treats, enrichment, and spending time with them is very important.
A new cat arriving should be a joyful occasion. Be prepared. Form a bond, and allow some time. Bieng patient can help to ease gently into the new routine. Remember – your new feline may also find the move stressful.
What Is New Cat Owner Anxiety?
The process of bringing a new cat into your home, whether a kitten or adult, should be a time of great anticipation and joy. However, for many, it is tinged with anxiety, guilt, doubt, and fear. New cat owner anxiety is rarely discussed, but more common than you might think. If you are struggling with the reality of owning a new cat, you’re not alone.
This form of anxiety is usually brought on immediately after the new pet arrives when the owner feels overwhelmed with the responsibility of owning a pet. Having a new addition to your home is a big change: to your routine, your responsibilities, your possessions, and even your financial situation. It is perfectly normal to experience some doubts.
Owner anxiety is often exacerbated if the new cat also has symptoms of anxiety. Moving to a new home can be a stressful experience for cats, and can lead to a behavior problem such as inappropriate elimination, destructiveness, or excessive vocalization. These behaviors can act as anxiety triggers for the new owner, and a spiral of stress is born.
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How Can I Overcome New Owner Anxiety?
If you’re in the depths of anxiety over your new pet, you might be comforted to know that these feelings do pass. We all worry about our beloved cats, of course, but those feelings become more manageable. Taking time for both cat and owner to adjust to their new situations is key, as is being practically prepared for the first weeks of your shared life together.
1. Focus On The Basics
If you’re concerned about the responsibility of owning a feline companion, it can be reassuring to make a checklist of their basic needs and make sure everything is ticked off. To start with, it is recommended to restrict a new cat to a small, safe area of your home where they can take some time to settle in and orientate themselves.
They will need:
- Food and water bowls (preferably not too close together)
- Litter tray
- Comfy bed and blanket
- Toys and enrichment
- Scratching post
You might want to provide many other things in time, but these are the basics. If you have all of these, you can rest a little easier knowing that your new cat will be warm, safe, fed, and watered. You might also want to book them an appointment with a veterinarian for a health check to reassure yourself that there are no symptoms of any medical conditions.
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2. Settle Into A Routine
Owning a pet, especially a first pet can mean large changes to our daily routines, habits, and environment. Part of new cat owner anxiety can be centered on remembering to perform certain duties, such as filling the food bowl or emptying the litter box.
Getting into a strong routine can help both owner and cat to adapt to their new lives together. A predictable routine will help anxious cats to settle, and help owners feel more secure in their new role.
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3. Form A Bond
Cats can be social creatures, and spending time with your new pet will help reduce anxiety and strengthen connections. Active interactions such as playing, grooming, or feeding treats are excellent ways to bond with a cat.
However, more passive interactions such as just being present in a room with them can also be valuable. These quieter bonding sessions might be more appropriate if the new arrival has any signs of stress, such as a lot of hiding behavior or excessive grooming.
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4. Time And Patience
Be kind to yourself, and accept that it will take some time for you to adapt to having a pet in the household and that the anxiety will diminish as time passes and the new becomes normal. As a general rule, follow the “rule of three.”
After three days you and your new cat will likely be feeling overwhelmed. After three weeks you and your cat are both starting to relax into pet ownership, and by three months a new pet is usually settled fully into their new home.
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5. Remember To Take A Step Back
If you are feeling concerned about your new cat, it can feel like the right thing to do to spend all your time with them. However, this can be very overwhelming and can lead to signs of separation anxiety in your cat when you do leave. Sharing the responsibilities can help pace yourself in your new role as a cat owner, and give you an escape when anxiety is high.
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6. Look On The Bright Side
There is plenty of research that shows pet ownership can be a real positive in our lives. Companionship, support, and a solid routine can all be provided by our loving cats, and once the initial period of anxiety and adjustment is over, these benefits will make themselves known.
How Do I Help My Cat’s Anxiety?
If your cat is also having some wobbles settling into their new home, there is plenty you can do to support them. When your new pet first arrives, keep them in a secure, quiet area first until they have settled in a bit.
Provide plenty of places to hide, which helps cats feel safe. Cats like to be up high, so a perch or accessible shelves are useful. Using cat pheromones such as Feliway, in a diffuser or sprays, can help anxious cats feel more relaxed and provide reassurance that their new home isn’t threatening.
So they don’t get bored and frustrated, make sure your cat has enough to occupy themselves, such as cat trees for climbing, puzzle feeders, and plenty of cat toys.
If your cat shows signs of separation anxiety or other negative cat behavior, such as extreme restlessness, excessive self-grooming, depression, lethargy, poor appetite, excessive meowing, or spraying urine outside the litter box, they might need more help.
Stress and illness can have similar symptoms in cats, and if you are concerned then contact a veterinarian. If the problem is behavioral, they might be able to prescribe anti-anxiety medications to help.
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New Pet Anxiety: Final Thoughts
It’s true that a new pet is a big responsibility, but it’s also a pleasure and a joy. If it’s all feeling a bit much, follow our strategy to prevent overwhelm: focus on the basics, enlist support, settle into a routine, form a bond, and be patient. Cats can also feel anxious in new homes, so provide plenty of hiding places, treats, and enrichment, and spend time with them to relieve their stress.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why am I so anxious about my new cat?
It’s a big responsibility to take on a new pet, and all the changes they bring can feel overwhelming. Make sure you have provided all the basics, enlist some support, and try to develop and bond and a routine, which will all help.
How long until a cat gets used to a new owner?
Generally, the rule of three is used. After three days, everything might seem a bit overwhelming, after three weeks they are starting to settle in, and after three months the majority of cats are perfectly settled.